tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8034626526195727574.post309590927795182336..comments2023-09-28T06:23:21.791-04:00Comments on Pushin' Through the Pain: Wait a minute... What just happened?Pretty Paulinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15832732138849626377noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8034626526195727574.post-72092331034272265072011-03-05T02:29:16.201-05:002011-03-05T02:29:16.201-05:00I'm sorry you're having a hard time right ...I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now. <br /><br />I remember that one of the best things I read that helped me actually make peace with past events, and put them to rest, was the book by Dr Phil, "Self Matters". He doesn't want people to re-hash stuff to death. Without closure, it will still be under the surface, pushing us to soothe it in our own way (some with food, some with other "drugs of choice). Here is a page with samples of stuff similar to what's in the book:<br />http://www.drphil.com/articles/category/6/30/<br /><br />I never got "official" counseling, but by being willing to be uncomfortable for a little bit, I was able to work thru it and make progress; I remember, but the major sting is gone. <br /><br />Hope this helps. :-)<br />Loretta<br />=^..^=Rettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10034267067410245582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8034626526195727574.post-55980702830176525472011-03-03T17:51:01.718-05:002011-03-03T17:51:01.718-05:00Thank you soooo much for sharing this. I still st...Thank you soooo much for sharing this. I still struggle with my own upbringing & a lot of things that revolve around it. I have always believed that the reason I haven't been able to get past it is because I didn't explore it more &/or go to counselling. I'm so sorry for what you've gone through, but at least I know that that isn't necessarily the answer for me.Frau Guten Taghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16653229285252138595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8034626526195727574.post-85479605882784082002011-03-02T12:54:50.715-05:002011-03-02T12:54:50.715-05:00I hope you find your mojo soon! And I hope you enj...I hope you find your mojo soon! And I hope you enjoy your core transformer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Lindsey Luhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10405896498112507797noreply@blogger.com